There are a few things that I have learned over the years while conducting our investigations.  People that cheat lie.  Sometimes we discover that what they tell their spouse they are going to do is just a flat out lie.  Instead of going hunting all day he goes to a hotel.  Then there are the partial truth liars.  I going to the gym for a while.  Sure enough they drive right to the and our investigators think nothing is going to happen.  Five minutes later out they come and drive to meet their new friend.  A little making out in the front seat and then they hop in the back behind tinted windows for a while.

I’m telling you this so that you can begin to challenge

your spouses daily activities (in your mind) in a attempt

to figure out when they may be meeting the other

person.  People calling our office tell us they just have

a “gut feeling” or it’s “women’s intuition”.  Take a few

minutes and read through the Top Ten signs your

spouse may be cheating.  Approximately 90% of our

adultery cases turn out to be just that; adultery.  The

other 10% are either not cheating or are able to hide it extremely well.

You should expect that it will take multiple attempts to catch them unless you have an email conversation telling you where and when they will be getting together.  Our biggest problem is trying to balance between not getting too close, where we would get caught, and staying back too far and losing them.